Have you read He's Just Not That Into You and thought, 'Okay, nimrod. I get it. Now what?' Do The Rules make you shudder? Are you too cynical for the self-help section? Stress no more, solo girl: here are 98 solid suggestions for owning the dating scene. Step aside, Dr Phil, meta-self-help is here. Witty, snarky and (deep down) sincere, Elizabeth Paulson offers advice and encouragement for 20- and 30-somethings on their quest to find live - or at least requited lust. Each suggestion includes a handy benefit - cost analysis and likelihood of success. You'll laugh, you'll cry, at the least, we hope you'll get lucky.