Dimensions
133 x 210 x 13mm
Why Sometimes It's Better Not to Forgive
In our culture, "To err is human, to forgive divine," is so prevalent a sentiment that few of us question its wisdom. But do we ever completely forgive those who have hurt us? Aren't some actions unforgivable? Can we achieve closure and healing without forgiving?
Drawing on two decades of work as a practicing psychotherapist, more than 50 in-depth interviews, and sterling research into the concept of forgiveness in our society, Dr Jeanne Safer challenges popular beliefs with her own searching answers to these and other questions. The result is a penetrating look at what is often a lonely, and perhaps unnecessary, struggle to forgive those who have hurt us the most. And, concludes Safer, sometimes it is better not to forgive.
